People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. AITA for telling my husband to go f himself.My step-dad, who I love and is a real father, and my husband, who never experienced anything like my mother before, kept hounding me to answer her constant calls and just talk to her. I knew how it would go but said fine, enjoy the shitshow on speaker phone. I got screamed at by her drunk ass for a good five minutes. How DARE I go no contact ...AITA for not sharing my prize money with my husband. My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we are not in the US. A few weeks ago I saw a competition that we would both qualify for and told him about it. He said he wasn’t interested in it, so I said I would do submissions for both of us anyway to increase my chances of winning.My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was …Super congested, fussy, puking, etc. I bring her to her doctors, she's fine but has the upper respiratory infection. Doctors tell me to continue to breast feed on demand and they gave her an RSV vaccination. Well, my husband called his mom when we were leaving the doctor's and he had her on speaker because his phone is busted and only works ..."AITA for telling my husband's cousin she shouldn't have thrown a gender reveal party?" Both me (29F) and my husband's cousin Lena (fake name; 27F) are pregnant. ... but she can't dictate what I do about mine. Lena is furious. She told my in-laws that I was kicking her out of my baby shower. I told everyone the truth, but many are still on her ...1.2K Likes, 25 Comments. TikTok video from stories.lucy (@aitastories_lucy): “Replying to @stories.lucy AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #AITA #question #reddit #redditstories #reddit_tiktok #storytime #story #fyp #foryou #game”. aita for always getting a separate bill update. original sound - stories.lucy.I'll start at the beginning, my ex husband was a good father but a terrible husband. I divorced him when my oldest was 14 and youngest was 10. Well he ended up spiraling and the kids were exposed to that. I was blamed for ruining dad. He got better after a few years but ending up doing it again when he learned I was dating.Husband's family does have a lot of money, the generational kind of wealth. And we did the whole meeting - getting engaged - getting married quite quickly to be fair to his parents! But the thing is: my family has more money than his family! And hubby knew it too! I would be a less than stellar gold digger if that was my intent.My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time. On the weeks his dad had him I buckled down and did nothing but schoolwork. When he was with me I made sure I had time for him before and after school.Me & my husband also had a long dating period but we decided on getting married after a year - we just didn't have the money (weddings are super expensive when you have a big family). So we worked hard, bought a house & only after we had some extra money we had a very small ceremony. Overall we "dated" for 8 years & got married on …AITA for telling my husband I am upset he made lunch plans with his friend the day before my c-section, didn't tell me until the last minute and didn't consider inviting me ... Me and mine love time together but also time apart doing our own thing. He knows I love being home alone (it's a thing for me and treating myself to a solo date). I ...Agree. Tons of men change their behavior when there's a pregnancy and baby involved. My ex also was "awesome" until I was pregnant, then suddenly "omg I am so stressed, I am under so much pressure, everyone is just against me"..then started going out by himself, staying out late, not telling me where he was going, etc.Anyway, last night my son and I had quite a bad argument last night, and I told him during it that I would never, ever tell him who his biological father is or anything about him. This basically ended the argument, and while I've apologized to my son about being harsh, he still is upset that I said this, but I stand by it.My husband and I have been together for 4 years. I have two kids (17m /19f). and their half brother is 3 years old. this past week. My husband had an emergency (dad had a medical emergency) and wanted someone to watch our son. he asked my older son and he refused because he was going out with friends. he also asked my daughter but she locked herself in her room to study. I was at the ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my parent's that I'm not taking care of them when they get old. Not the A-hole. My mom hit me with the question a few weeks ago, I said no, and they kinda gave me a hard time about it. I've been slightly NC with my family for almost a decade - although I don't think they're aware of it.May 3, 2024 · So I finally straight up told her she will never have as happy a marriage with him as I have with my love. Specifically because she married someone who doesnt even like her, much less love her. I told her she can't change trash into gold by force & to have a marriage like mine she needs a husband like mine.I cut off my sister for ridiculing my husband repeatedly. She did it to his face and I told her to knock it off and she sort of apologized. My husband said he was ok, and pushed me to let it go, so I did, but I watched her behavior very carefully after that.My ex just nodded to what I was saying, and asked if he could see our daughter. I was a bit hesitant, but said yes, and called my sister to have her bring our daughter down to the living room. My ex held our daughter, and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving. My sister asked me if I was alright after he was gone, and I told her I was okay.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I have told my sister that she owes my money for stealing my watch for months and bringing back dirty and worn and scratched. I think I'm the asshole for telling her this impulsively and putting all the blame on her for my own negligence.AITA for expecting my husband to give me money? Not the A-hole. Over the last 14-years, I, W38, have paid most of the bills. My husband, M50, had a regular full-time job until 2015 when he was laid off. Instead of looking for another job, he decided to make money independently and has some small success.Context: My sister (F27) and I (18F) lost our dad a year ago. He was my only parent, mom was never in mine or my sister's life. Dad left money (inheritance) for me and sister and she used her inhertance to get new cars and renovate her house I live with my aunt right now cause my brother inlaw didn't let me stay with my sister.The story unfolded when a woman seeking advice posted on Reddit’s popular “Am I the A**hole” (AITA) forum, sharing that she had informed her husband that the money she earned was hers alone. She explained that she had always worked and managed her own finances, and she felt it was fair that she maintained control over her …Baby #3 has heart problems. My husband said every time he went to lay him down the oxygen monitor would go off. The thing is Husband didn’t figure out was baby #3 hates anything on his face. So you have to rock him to sleep then carefully put the oxygen on his nose. My aunt said that my husband called her the first night around midnight.My husband M36 and I F35 are high school sweethearts. He works a difficult job that requires travel, and is gone for one week and returns for one. He's the obvious breadwinner. I work a part time job at a local cafe and pay for our groceries and fun dates sometimes. My husband blows off steam by spending money.Previously, a problem with Jareth was he used to ignore all my calls and texts & it was annoying, but he's always home. He'd answer everyone else's texts/calls but he'd ignore mine. I confronted him about it, & he worked on that. My looks are not what they were when Jareth & I got together. I've aged &very insecure about it. Jareth tells me all ...If this is real, YTA for sure. By my account, you cheated on both partners: your husband when u stepped outside the understanding of your marriage, and your bf when u started fucking your husband again. Even if it was just once, which I have a hard time believing, that's all it takes to be a cheater.Well, what we hadn't known was that when our great-grandma died, she left my dad all that she had which came up to a sum of a couple thousand dollars that they decided to save for us. And because Cait began talking about maybe going to school, Mom began to save her bill money to add to the sum of the money.It was just me and my daughter for the next 7 years until I married my husband. We had 3 kids in quick succession after we got married. They are now 8M, 7F, and 5F. I recently found out I was pregnant, and that has made my marriage worse. My daughter's dad first lived off of others giving him money to be an equestrian.I love my husband, I do but that's one thing I can't do. Ride or die, I get defending him in different situations but serious ones aren't my friends. His behavior is odd these days, we have two kids we do everything for and my husband thinks he is one of the kids. My husband expects me to do so much for him, I told him he doesn't come first so ...I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a child, why let this go to waste, you're so selfish."Context: My sister (F27) and I (18F) lost our dad a year ago. He was my only parent, mom was never in mine or my sister's life. Dad left money (inheritance) for me and sister and she used her inhertance to get new cars and renovate her house I live with my aunt right now cause my brother inlaw didn't let me stay with my sister.I calmly told him to pack him and his kids stuff and get out of my house and that they needed to stay gone for awhile. I told him I needed space, without harassment and said that I am reconsidering staying in this marriage. He says that breaking vows over kids being excited about a baby "shows my true colors".Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.Now one of my stepsisters is a solicitor and we were hoping that her first reaction would be to ensure her mother got at least 50% not 30.5 and we were correct a week after our solicitor sent the letter we recieved a notice of severence from my step sister informing my father that on the grounds him and my SM had split they are both entitled to ...My husband is a business owner (real estate developer) and he makes a lot more than I do. He also comes from money. My sister didn't like him from the get go, she even threw a tantrum (thankfully in private) in my wedding. Apparently the bride gifts he brought were tacky (more like very expensive, more than what yer husband could get her)My wife is currently battling cancer, and one of the things she's told me she's struggling with the most was losing her hair. She's been given a near 100% chance of survival since we caught it early, but the chemotherapy has destroyed her hair anyway, and she had to shave what was left of it off a few weeks ago.My wife was ordered to go to anger management, therapy, and parenting classes. Ava was brought back to us 3 times but every time she was brought back she'd run away or raise hell until she got to stay with her aunt. My wife's sister got full custody because of that. My wife has been trying to fix her relationship with Ava since the incident.Definitely not. How much your late wife left your children is between you and them. nta. but i feel like neither of you are. unless Nat wanted to take their money or something. I can see where she's coming from with being upset. so this feels like a nobody scenario. I feel like I could be upset in her place too.NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.It’s just the dynamics of Saturday that is my issue. poweller65. Just start taking Emma. If your wife pushes back, tell her that you and Emma need father daughter time. She and Jennifer can take Harper to do something with them. Focus on the fact that Emma needs you and needs that one on one time with you.When a dating partner or spouse uses or controls the money you have earned or saved, they are exploiting your resources. Here are some examples of this exploitation. Trying to control your use of or access to money you have earned or saved. -Using your assets for their personal benefit without asking.Both Kathy and my husband were destroyed, and Kathy ended up moving away. My husband went onto meeting me, and we were married two years ago. My MIL (F60) has always carried a torch for Kathy and thought that they should get back together when the child was proved to be my husband's. Then the next reason became so that Kathy and …ETA again: he signed a pre-nup. I owned the house long before we started dating. I withdrew MY $23k from the bank and put it in my personal. I already spoke to an attorney and I'm in the clear to do so because I have a paper trail on what was mine vs what was his. I'm an accountant. Numbers and money is kind of my specialty.My (42F) ex husband (45M) and I were together for 20 years. We had a beautiful daughter together, Joceline (14F). We got a divorce 5 years ago due to infidelity on his part. I was devastated. He was the love of my life and he betrayed all of the trust and loyalty we had built up. To make matters worse, he ended up in a relationship with the ...AITA for telling my husband he needs to move on? My (F29) husband (M27) lost his mom about 4 months ago to skin cancer. Of course, he was devastated considering him and his mom were extremely close. She was a single mom and raised him all alone so their bond was incredible.AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.Bride, 23, Slammed for Charging Guests $10 to Attend Utah Wedding and Posting Registry on Social Media. She went onto explain that her sister asked their parents for financial help, but they ...As the working parent in my relationship, it is your money as much as it is his. I know this is not how things are viewed in some cultures, yours included by the sound of it, but it is the reality. Without my husband staying home, we'd pay astronomical childcare fees. The amount you save your family in housekeeping and childcare is your earnings.My husband insists that it should be only 4 hours (in the morning) so we would have to pay less. And since “I have been so great at taking care of everything” I will manage to do it by my own in the afternoons, he also does not want anyone else cooking for him or cleaning our bedroom, it has to be me; and then it turned into a big ...I told her and my husband she's not holding my daughter again until she stops disrespecting me. My husband was pissed but didn't say anything because he "gets it" and sees why it sketches me out but is still bothered that his mom is "alienated". I told him when she learns to respect me, she will get another opportunity. He agrees.I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a child, why let this go to waste, you're so selfish."So a quick little backstory. My husband (21M) and his brother (25M) have always had a great relationship. His brother moved away when he was younger and even though they're now 2 hours apart, they still regularly talk and play games online together. My husband is one of six kids and they all are still in contact and on good terms.My fiancé "Matt" claimed our daughter this year on his taxes and got back almost $9k because of it. I only made $800 less than him but we were told to have him claim her, as he did make more money. When he found out how much he was getting back, we came up with an agreement to put $6k of the money in to our daughters Roth Savings Account.ADMIN MOD. AITA that i told my husband to stop supporting his adult daughter? Not the A-hole. I (47F) am very frustrated about this and thinking long hard and want to know if my feelings are valid. My husband (54M) keeps supporting his daughter (27F) who's a single mom. Currently, the daughter lives with her mom and is asking him for help ...throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...My little sister was 12 when I got married and was definitely not interested in the flower girl position. 😄 At 12, many girls are at or near full adult height and do not want to be wearing the foofy little dress and doing a job meant for a little kid (though I can certainly imagine some outliers who would still have fun with it.)AITA for not sharing my prize money with my husband. My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we are not in the US. A few weeks ago I saw a competition that we would both qualify for and told him about it. He said he wasn’t interested in it, so I said I would do submissions for both of us anyway to increase my chances of winning.Even if my husband made all the money in the world? I still wouldn't want to stay at home. I love my work, but don't particularly care for housework. Not every working mom is working because their husband doesn't make enough cash, and even if you make a cool million there's no guarantee you'll have a stay at home wife.r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.If wife isn't earning money, she needs to stop acting like husband's income is disposable. If she wants to help her sister she really should consider getting back to work. Supporting a family of 3 on one income is hard enough without another grown dependent in the mix.My husband insists that it should be only 4 hours (in the morning) so we would have to pay less. And since “I have been so great at taking care of everything” I will manage to do it by my own in the afternoons, he also does not want anyone else cooking for him or cleaning our bedroom, it has to be me; and then it turned into a big ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: got mad at my husband for using my money that I'd given him to hold onto, not to keep and use 2) we're married and we should be a team, which can mean supporting each other financially at times. Help keep the sub engaging!"AITA for telling my husband's cousin she shouldn't have thrown a gender reveal party?" Both me (29F) and my husband's cousin Lena (fake name; 27F) are pregnant. ... but she can't dictate what I do about mine. Lena is furious. She told my in-laws that I was kicking her out of my baby shower. I told everyone the truth, but many are still on her ...AITA for telling my wife I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine. I (31m) am married to my wife Amber (30f) we have a daughter Emma (7f) the problem is my wife’s best friend Jennifer (30f) has a daughter as well Harper (7f) well Harpers dad is a lazy sack of crap and refuses to do anything with his daughter.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1.) Telling my husband I can't keep letting him leave open beers in the fridge. 2.) Because it shows that I don't respect my husbands wishes. Help keep the sub engaging!Just 6 months ago, the daughter asked for money for dental implants. I happily told my husband to be as generous as he can be since it's not always the case and she rarely ask for money. After that first time, she kept asking for more. One time it was grocery, next its day care bills, then phone bills.AITA for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom. My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time.Yup as a married woman myself you “leave and cleave” meaning you leave your family of origins and cleave to the family you create with your spouse. And as a married man you do the same. Actually. the Bible says that that’s what the man is supposed to do, so he’s even more responsible for it.Read this before contacting the mod team. My husband (27M) and myself (28M) have had a pretty rough year financially. We moved to a new city, and both ended up taking lower paying jobs than usual, and have had a hard time budgeting with our new salaries. So, for Christmas we promised we would cut back on gifts for each other, setting a $50 ...I was in bed for four days with a fever ranging from 103-106 (Fahrenheit), plus chills, body aches and vomiting. It was awful. My husband, to his credit, did take care of me. He took a day off of work when he needed to, took care of the kids (14, 6, 4 and 1) solo and made sure I was staying hydrated, asked if I needed anything, etc….